this is old but I am reposting it because it is relevant to my life right now
So today in my cinema class, these girls were talking about different “types of people” and they mentioned scene kids and hipsters. This one girl said, “oh if you have a tumblr you’re a hipster.” This other girl turns to me and said, “Don’t you have a tumblr? doesn’t that make you a hipster?” I said no. She asked, “So what are you?” I replied, “I’m me.”
What it is with our obsession to fit everyone into these little constraints? Everyone tries to be nonconformist, yet they all end up acting the same way. Then people start labeling them. Why? Why can’t people just be who they are? Why do they have to be hipster or scene or emo or goth or whatever the heck people say? I mean geeze, I go from wearing high-waisted skirts and flats to ripped jeans and band shirts to skinny jeans, v-necks, converse and leather jackets; apparently this confuses people because I don’t have a “style.” WHY DO I NEED ONE? Why do I have to fit into a label? Why can’t I just act how I want, listen to what I want, read what I want, wear what I want just BECAUSE? Since when does EVERYTHING I do, every song I listen to, every book I read, every outfit I wear have to be analyzed and labeled?
I am who I am. End of story.
Go stick labels on soup cans and leave the people alone.
for spamming you with the asks but honestly, every time I get one my heart just gets so full and I smile like :DDD and it makes me so happy because in a single day because of a single post, so many people have seen my blog and to know that it has made some sort of difference means so much to me because all I’ve wanted is to make sure that everyone has happiness in their lives<3
So I’ve been seeing a lot of people on the Internet complaining/making fun of couples who are all “I love you I love you” after a short amount of time. I understand that if it’s a certain girl/guy who is constantly getting into new relationships every five seconds and as soon as they begin he/she starts using “love” it gets annoying because it feels insincere. But really, we don’t know what the story is behind some of these relationships. Sometimes, like in my case, feelings that I suppressed were building up under the surface so when I finally let go and let myself feel, even though the relationship had just started, I knew I loved him because the feelings had existed before. Or maybe, as was the case with a friend of mine, some sort of relationship existed but it wasn’t official for a while so although it seems to others like the love word came too soon, to them it was perfect timing. Basically what I’m trying to say is that unless we are one of the members in the couple, we have no way of knowing what they are feeling, so we have no right to judge. Just let ‘em be. If they’re happy, let them be happy.
My best friend decorate my locker BEAUTIFULLY with lots of pictures<3
I open my locker and you can’t see anything because there are different colored post its everywhere. Hundreds. I still haven’t seen every single one. I almost cried. And of course a Starbucks coffee waiting inside <3
I love both of them so much:)
Him:Lol so you're never gonna believe what I just saw, it's unbelievable, like you have no idea:P
Me:Hahaha what is it???
Him:I walked into my room and I looked over at my night table and there it was...Just looking at me and I couldn't believe my eyes, I had never seen something so precious, it was hard to believe...it was the most beautiful being in the whole wide world...it was: